Staff Sergeant Joseph E. Phaneuf II, born on December 7, 1968, in Putnam, Connecticut, tragically lost his life on December 15, 2006, during combat operations in Mehtar Lam, Afghanistan. He was 38 years old. Joseph was a dedicated soldier, a loving family man, and a committed community member whose service and sacrifice remain an enduring inspiration.

Military Service

Staff Sgt. Phaneuf’s military journey began in the 1990s, and after the September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks, he re-enlisted, driven by a profound sense of duty. He was assigned to the Headquarters Company of the 1st Battalion, 102nd Infantry Brigade in November 2005 and had previously deployed to Iraq in February 2004 with the Connecticut National Guard’s 118th Medical Battalion. Prior to his deployment to Afghanistan, Joseph worked as a field operating technician for T-Mobile for five years.

On December 15, 2006, while driving an armored vehicle, Joseph was killed by a roadside bomb. His death was a stark reminder of the risks faced by those who serve to protect our freedoms. Governor M. Jodi Rell ordered flags to be flown at half-staff in his honor, calling him a “volunteer citizen-soldier” whose courage and sacrifice exemplified the highest ideals of service.

Maj. Gen. Thaddeus J. Martin, Adjutant General of the Connecticut National Guard, stated, “It is very difficult to lose another great soldier who answered the call to duty. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Phaneuf family and all our service members still on duty in Afghanistan and Iraq.”

Family and Community

Joseph was the beloved husband of Michele Kozey Phaneuf for 11 years and the devoted father to their three children: Ryan, Danielle, and Jordan. He was the cherished son of Peter Phaneuf of Dayville, Connecticut, and Barbara Ortega Phaneuf of Killingly, Connecticut. He is also survived by his three brothers, Dennis, Tony, and Rob, as well as his three sisters, Tiffany Gion, Holly Grube, and Veronica Mobley. Joseph’s extended family included his parents-in-law, Greg and Teddy Kozey, his sister-in-law, Sharon Kozey, and 13 nieces and nephews.

Beyond his military service, Joseph was deeply involved in his community. As a member of the Eastford Volunteer Fire Department, he demonstrated a commitment to protecting and serving others. He also coached youth basketball, T-ball, and baseball, inspiring the next generation through mentorship and sportsmanship. Joseph’s passions included photography, golf, and rooting for his favorite team, the Michigan Wolverines.

Honoring His Memory

Staff Sgt. Phaneuf’s funeral services reflected the profound impact of his life. Friends and family gathered on December 26, 2006, at the Gilman Funeral Home in Putnam, Connecticut, to honor his memory. A Mass of Christian Burial was held the following day at St. Patrick Cathedral in Norwich, Connecticut. Joseph was laid to rest with military honors in Arlington National Cemetery, a fitting tribute to his service and sacrifice.

In lieu of flowers, the Phaneuf family requested donations be made to the Phaneuf Children’s Education Fund, ensuring that Joseph’s legacy would continue through the support and growth of his beloved children.

Legacy

Staff Sergeant Joseph E. Phaneuf II embodied the qualities of courage, selflessness, and dedication. His loss is deeply felt by his family, community, and the nation he served. As we remember Joseph, we honor not only his sacrifice but also the enduring impact of his life on those who knew and loved him. His memory will forever be a testament to the values he upheld and the lives he touched.