U.S. Army Specialist David R. Fahey Jr., born December 13, 1987, in Norwalk, Connecticut, was a devoted soldier and cherished member of his community. His life was tragically cut short on February 28, 2011, when an improvised explosive device (IED) detonated beneath his vehicle during a combat patrol in Kandahar province, Afghanistan. He was 23 years old.
David enlisted in the Army on August 31, 2007, and completed military police training at Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri. Following a year-long assignment at Camp Walker, South Korea, he was stationed at Joint Base Lewis-McChord, Washington, where he served with the 170th Military Police Company, 504th Military Police Battalion, 42nd Military Police Brigade. His unit deployed to Afghanistan in June 2010, and David was committed to safeguarding others until his final day.
A man of unwavering integrity and resilience, David was honored posthumously with numerous awards, including the Army Good Conduct Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Korea Defense Service Medal, Afghanistan Campaign Medal, Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, Army Service Ribbon, Overseas Service Ribbon, NATO Medal, and Drivers and Mechanics Badge.
David’s legacy is a testament to his kind and adventurous spirit. He loved sports and cherished time with family and friends. Those close to him remember him for his infectious smile, boundless energy, and generosity. His uncle, Christopher Fahey, described him as a hero, while family friend Joseph Iaropoli shared, “It’s hard to describe. Words are really not sufficient.”
The impact of David’s service was felt deeply in Yorktown, where he was raised by his aunt and uncle, Thomas and Frances Fahey. He shared his childhood with his siblings and cousins, including his brother Tyler, who attends Yorktown High School. Tyler recalled the memories of playing video games and Nerf gun battles, noting, “David always won.” David’s devotion to his family and his future aspirations—including a planned career with the New York Police Department—left an indelible mark on those who knew him.
At his funeral on March 10, 2011, held at St. Patrick’s Church, loved ones, service members, and community members gathered to celebrate David’s life. Sgt. Skye Ortiz, his squad leader, spoke of David’s unwavering dedication, saying, “No matter what, he always had a smile on his face, and he was always the best at his job.” Pastor Dan O’Brien of Calvary Bible Church, where David attended services, said, “We are indebted to men and women like David Fahey who stand in the face of evil, who stand in our place.”
Veterans from past wars stood outside the funeral home, a poignant tribute to a soldier who had devoted his life to protecting others. The ceremony highlighted David’s legacy as a brave, selfless protector who was deeply loved by those he left behind.
David’s name has been added to memorials in his hometown, including the Shea-Magrath memorial plaque at Calf Pasture Beach and a plaque at City Hall honoring Norwalk’s veterans. His memory lives on in the hearts of his family, friends, and a grateful nation that continues to honor his sacrifice.
David R. Fahey Jr. is remembered not only for his heroism but for being a beloved son, brother, friend, and a true American hero who put others before himself and lived each day to the fullest.
