On this special day, we honor the life and legacy of Joseph A. Heller, Jr., born on January 24, 1937, in New Haven, Connecticut, to Joseph Heller, Sr., and Ruth Marion (Clock). A Navy Seabee veteran, a devoted husband, a loving father, and a cherished member of his community, Joe’s life was marked by service, humor, and a unique individuality that left an indelible mark on all who knew him.

A Childhood of Adventure
Joe grew up during the Great Depression, an era that shaped his resourcefulness and sharp wit. As the eldest of five siblings, he embraced his role with a mix of leadership and mischief. Joe and his brother Bob were inseparable partners in childhood pranks, while his younger siblings—Pat, Dick, and Kathy—often became the good-natured targets of their escapades.

Dedicated to Service
Joe’s adventurous spirit and sense of duty led him to serve honorably in the Navy as a Construction Electrician’s Mate 3rd Class with the Seabees in Bermuda. Upon returning to Connecticut, Joe pursued a career at Cheeseborough-Ponds, where his ingenuity contributed to the development of their early cosmetics line.

Joe’s commitment to service extended to his community. He held various roles, including town constable, volunteer firefighter, ambulance association member, and snowplow operator. A proud member of the Antique Veterans organization, Joe embraced every opportunity to honor his fellow servicemen and women.

A Family Man with a Heart of Gold
Joe found the love of his life in Irene, his wife of over 60 years. Together, they created a life filled with laughter and love, raising their three daughters—Michelle, Lisette, and Monique. Joe’s dedication to his family knew no bounds, and he cherished his grandchildren, delighting in their company and sharing his humor and wisdom.

As “Papa” and “Grampa Joe,” he was a source of joy and laughter for his grandchildren, leaving them with countless treasured memories. His legacy of love, humor, and kindness continues to live on through his family.

A Life of Humor and Generosity
Joe’s personality was as colorful as the costumes his wife Irene lovingly crafted for his playful escapades. Known for his role as Essex’s “Dawg Kecher,” he found homes for stray animals and brought smiles to his community with his lighthearted approach to life. Joe’s knack for treasure hunting at the Essex Dump and his unwavering kindness toward people and animals made him a beloved figure.

A Lasting Legacy
While Joe passed away on September 8, 2019, his memory remains alive in the hearts of his family and community. Predeceased by his wife, Irene, and his brother, Bobby, Joe leaves behind a family enriched by his life lessons, laughter, and love. His daughters, grandchildren, siblings, and numerous nieces and nephews each carry a part of his legacy.

Joe was laid to rest with full military honors at Centerbrook Cemetery, a fitting tribute to his life of dedication and service. His family encourages donations to the Seabee Memorial Scholarship Association in his memory, ensuring that Joe’s legacy of generosity and support continues.

Remembering Joe on His Birthday
As we celebrate Joe’s birthday, we reflect on a life well-lived. His humor, compassion, and unwavering spirit continue to inspire those who knew him. In his honor, let us share a laugh, enjoy a cup of coffee, or commit a harmless prank—because that’s exactly what Joe would have done.