Army Staff Sergeant Joseph Edward Phaneuf II was born on December 7, 1968, and was raised in Eastford, Connecticut, a small rural community where values such as hard work, loyalty, and service were lived rather than spoken. Known to family and friends as dependable and steady, Joseph was someone others trusted instinctively. He carried a strong sense of responsibility from an early age and was deeply connected to his hometown, its people, and its traditions.
Before and beyond his military service, Joseph lived a life rooted in family, work ethic, and commitment. Those closest to him described a man who placed others before himself, who led quietly by example, and who never sought recognition for doing the right thing. His character was defined by consistency—showing up when needed, doing difficult work without complaint, and standing firm in moments that required resolve.

Joseph chose to serve his country as a member of the United States Army, rising through the enlisted ranks to become a Staff Sergeant. Over the course of his military career, he earned the respect of both peers and junior Soldiers for his experience, professionalism, and leadership. As a noncommissioned officer, he was known for mentoring those under his charge, emphasizing discipline, accountability, and care for one another. His leadership reflected an understanding that the strength of a unit depended on trust and shared responsibility.
As an experienced Soldier, Staff Sgt. Phaneuf deployed in support of U.S. operations overseas, including service in Afghanistan. In a demanding operational environment, he carried out his duties with the same steadiness and dedication that defined his life at home. Fellow Soldiers regarded him as a reliable presence—someone who could be counted on in both routine operations and moments of heightened risk.
On August 28, 2013, while deployed in Afghanistan, Staff Sgt. Joseph E. Phaneuf II lost his life while serving his country. His angelversary marked the loss of a seasoned Soldier, a leader, and a Connecticut native whose service represented years of commitment and sacrifice. His passing was felt deeply by his family, fellow service members, and the Eastford community he proudly represented.
Joseph’s life was not defined solely by his uniform. He was a man who valued home, family, and responsibility; someone who believed in doing his part without expectation of praise. His service reflected a lifelong pattern of stepping forward when needed and carrying burdens so others would not have to.
Today, Staff Sgt. Joseph E. Phaneuf II is remembered with honor—as a Soldier who served faithfully, a leader who earned trust, and a son of Connecticut whose life embodied duty, strength, and quiet integrity.
Dates
Birth: December 7, 1968 – Eastford, Connecticut
Angelversary: August 28, 2013 – Afghanistan
Service & Achievements
United States Army – Staff Sergeant
Noncommissioned Officer and leader of Soldiers
Served in overseas combat operations, including Afghanistan
Recognized for professionalism, leadership, and devotion to duty

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