On January 11, we joyfully celebrate the birthday of John “Jack” Francis O’Neill, a remarkable individual whose life was filled with love, service, and a commitment to helping others. Born in 1940, Jack was the second of five children in the O’Neill family, growing up in Hartford’s Dutch Point Colony. Known fondly as “one of the Five Fighting O’Neills,” his childhood experiences shaped his character and instilled a deep sense of community and resilience.
Jack attended St. Peter’s Grammar School, where he was not only a dedicated student but also served as Class President. His charisma and leadership qualities continued to shine through his years at Bulkeley High School, where he was honored as the “Boy of the Year” in 1958. Described by his classmates as unpredictable yet hardworking, Jack’s warm personality and sincerity made him beloved by all.
A proud veteran, Jack joined the United States Coast Guard Reserve in 1959, rising through the ranks to become a Lieutenant Commander. His dedication to service was evident as he commanded two Port Security Units and served as aide-de-camp to multiple governors over a distinguished 45-year career. His commitment to his country was matched only by his passion for his community, working in various roles that included being a lifeguard, recreation leader, and counselor, ultimately earning the title of “Employee of the Year” at the Connecticut Department of Correction in 1993.
Jack’s love for education was evident as he earned multiple degrees, culminating in a Post Master’s Certificate in Moral Theology from Holy Apostles College and Seminary. He published two books, combining his passion for writing with his desire to inspire others. His cherished wife, Julia Anne Sayers O’Neill, whom he affectionately called his guiding light, was his constant source of encouragement throughout his journey.
As we honor Jack’s birthday, we remember his love for family, his contributions to the community, and the countless lives he touched. He is survived by his loving family, including his sons, Colonel (ret) Vincent O’Neill and Attorney John F. X. O’Neill, and his daughter Eileen Mary O’Neill. His legacy continues through his grandchildren and many nieces and nephews who adored him.
Though Jack passed away three years ago, his spirit lives on in the memories we share and the lives he influenced. Today, we celebrate his birthday by reflecting on his life—a life filled with adventure, love, and an unwavering commitment to helping others reach their fullest potential. Happy Birthday, Jack! Your legacy of kindness and service will forever be remembered.
