Captain Eric Thomas Paliwoda, 28, was killed in action on January 2, 2004, in Balad, Iraq, when his command post came under mortar attack. Eric’s life, though cut short, was one of exceptional achievement, service, and dedication.
Born on February 23, 1975, in Hartford, Connecticut, Eric was the beloved son of Alfred and Mary Paliwoda, now of Sedona, Arizona. He is survived by his parents, his sister and brother-in-law Allison and Captain Jeff Csoka, his fiancée Wendy Rosen, and his extended family, including his uncle, aunt, and cousins Thomas, Susan, Michael, and Cailin Luneburg.
Eric’s journey began in Farmington, Connecticut, where he attended West District Elementary and Irving A. Robbins Middle Schools. He graduated from West Hartford’s Conard High School in 1993, where his standout skills as an All-American basketball player made him a local legend. His academic excellence and athleticism led to a congressional nomination to the prestigious United States Military Academy at West Point.
At West Point, Eric excelled academically and athletically, participating in Army’s Division I Basketball and Track & Field teams. Graduating in 1997 with a Bachelor of Science, he was commissioned as a Second Lieutenant in the United States Army. His military career spanned from Fort Hood, Texas, to Fort Carson, Colorado, where he served in various leadership roles, culminating in his position as Company Commander for Bravo Company, 3rd Engineer Battalion, 4th Infantry Division, during Operation Iraqi Freedom.
Eric’s military training included numerous advanced courses such as the Engineer Officer Basic Course, the Cavalry Leaders Course, and the Combined Arms Services Staff School. His exemplary service earned him multiple decorations, including the Army Commendation Medal, the Army Achievement Medal, and the National Defense Service Medal. Posthumously, he was awarded the Purple Heart and Bronze Star for his bravery and sacrifice.
Though his time was tragically brief, Eric’s impact extended beyond the battlefield. He had been selected to return to West Point as an instructor in the Department of Environmental Studies and was eagerly anticipating his upcoming wedding to fiancée Wendy Rosen. His parents remember him as a young man who was both driven and compassionate, always willing to serve others while pursuing his own aspirations.
Eric’s life was one of purpose and dedication, and his legacy continues to inspire all who knew him. As a leader, he changed the lives of those around him. His courage, commitment, and love for his country remain a testament to the extraordinary man he was.
Captain Paliwoda was laid to rest at the West Point Military Cemetery, where his life and service are honored by all who remember him.
