Robert “Bruce” Fagan lived a life defined by service, adventure, and an unwavering dedication to others. Born on July 3, 1954, in New Haven, Connecticut, Bruce embraced every experience with passion, from his military service to his lifelong commitment to veterans, his Masonic brotherhood, and his spiritual journey. He passed away unexpectedly on February 19, 2025, at Hartford Hospital, leaving behind a legacy of kindness, leadership, and an indomitable spirit.
A proud U.S. Army veteran, Bruce served from 1971 to 1974 during the Vietnam Era, stationed in Germany as an E-3 in heavy artillery. His military service instilled in him a deep sense of camaraderie, leading him to remain actively involved with fellow veterans long after his time in uniform. He co-founded Skydive for Veterans, a nonprofit dedicated to supporting those who served, and chaired the Veterans Committee at the Westbrook Elks Lodge, ensuring that his fellow service members were never forgotten.
Beyond his military connections, Bruce found purpose and brotherhood in the Masons, where he served as Senior Warden at Anchor Lodge 112 in East Hampton. A devoted member of the Shriners, Scottish Rite, and Widow’s Sons, he took pride in the traditions and values of his Masonic family. His generosity extended to everyone he met, always greeting friends and strangers alike as “brother” or “sister.” His impact on those around him was immeasurable, and his heart was as boundless as his adventurous spirit.
Bruce lived without limits. A true adrenaline enthusiast, he worked as a deep-sea diver, raced hydroplane boats, and had an enduring love for aviation. Whether skydiving, flying in experimental planes, or organizing flyovers for veterans’ events, he embraced the thrill of life with open arms. His arborist business, American Home and Tree, was another passion, where he could often be seen high in the trees or cruising in his beloved trucks—“Yellow,” “Green,” and “Big Red.”
At the core of Bruce’s journey was his spiritual path. Deeply connected to Native American traditions, he embraced the teachings of the Lakota, Cree, and Peruvian cultures, sharing their wisdom and leading shamanic drum circles. He walked the “Red Road” with a philosophy centered on love, service, and healing, co-founding Rising Wings Counseling Services with his wife, Marie, to foster connection and growth.
Bruce’s greatest joy was his family. He leaves behind his beloved wife, Marie Goodine, and his daughters, Nelmarie (Antonio) and Yuneli (Luis), along with his cherished granddaughters, Alana and Camilla. He is also survived by his brother, William “Sarge” Fagan, his sister JoAnn Panek, and many nieces, nephews, and extended family members. He was predeceased by his dear sister, Sharon Hosley.
Bruce Fagan’s legacy is one of love, adventure, and unwavering generosity. His presence will be deeply missed, but the impact he made on his family, friends, and community will live on. His life was a testament to the power of service, the strength of brotherhood, and the boundless possibilities of a fearless heart.
